Valentine’s Day—the holiday of love, heart-shaped everything, and a lot of pressure if you’re planning to propose. It’s no small feat to find the perfect way to pop the question, but I’ve got you covered.
Whether you’re the grand-gesture type or someone who prefers an intimate setting, here are 25 ideas for 2025 that will help you create a moment they’ll never forget.
- 1. The Classic Candlelit Dinner Proposal
- 2. Personalized Scavenger Hunt
- 3. Proposal During a Couple’s Photo Shoot
- 4. Proposal in a Jar
- 5. Snowy Surprise
- 6. Sunset Beach Proposal
- 7. Movie Night with a Twist
- 8. Hot Air Balloon Proposal
- 9. Starry Night Proposal
- 10. Customized Puzzle Proposal
- 11. Flash Mob Proposal
- 12. Valentine’s Day Card Proposal
- 13. Romantic Getaway Proposal
- 14. Balloon Bouquet Surprise
- 15. Proposal with a Four-Legged Friend
- 16. A Private Movie Screening
- 17. Musical Serenade Proposal
- 18. Food Truck Proposal
- 19. Recreate Your First Date
- 20. Treasure Hunt Adventure
- 21. Skywriting Proposal
- 22. Museum or Art Gallery Proposal
- 23. Home-Cooked Meal Surprise
- 24. Proposal at a Charity Event
- 25. Gardening Together Proposal
- Wrapping It Up with Love
1. The Classic Candlelit Dinner Proposal
There’s a reason why a candlelit dinner is a go-to for romance—it’s timeless. Book a reservation at your partner’s favorite restaurant, or, if you want to add a personal touch, cook their favorite meal at home.
Decorate the space with soft lighting, flowers, and romantic music in the background. When dessert arrives, surprise them with the ring. To make it extra special, consider a heart-shaped dessert with the ring as the centerpiece.
2. Personalized Scavenger Hunt
A scavenger hunt adds an element of fun and creativity to your proposal. Create a trail of clues that lead your partner to significant places in your relationship.
For example, you can start with the spot where you first met, then guide them to the place where you had your first date, and finally end at a location where you’re waiting with the ring. Add personal touches like handwritten notes or small mementos at each stop.
3. Proposal During a Couple’s Photo Shoot
Suggest a couple’s photoshoot as a way to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Choose a scenic location or a spot that’s meaningful to both of you. Coordinate with the photographer ahead of time so they’re ready to capture the moment when you propose.
As the photoshoot progresses, surprise your partner by dropping to one knee and asking them to marry you. The best part? You’ll have professional photos to cherish forever.
4. Proposal in a Jar
This idea is perfect if your partner loves thoughtful gestures. Write down 50 reasons why you love them on small pieces of paper and fold them neatly. Place the notes in a decorated jar and present it to your partner.
As they read through the notes, let the last one say, “Will You Marry Me?” You can even place the ring at the bottom of the jar for an extra surprise.
5. Snowy Surprise
If you’re lucky enough to have snow on Valentine’s Day, take advantage of the winter wonderland. Write “Will You Marry Me?” in the snow using footprints, or create a heart-shaped snowman holding a sign with the question.
Bundle up, head outside, and lead your partner to the spot where the snowy message awaits. It’s playful, creative, and incredibly romantic. 🌨️
6. Sunset Beach Proposal
Few things are more romantic than a sunset on the beach. Plan a walk along the shoreline with your partner, and time it so you’re there just as the sun sets.
Write your proposal in the sand or bring a small picnic setup to make the moment even more special. As the sun dips below the horizon, ask them to spend forever with you.
7. Movie Night with a Twist
Plan a cozy movie night at home with all your partner’s favorite snacks and drinks. Before the feature film starts, play a short video that you’ve created. The video could include photos from your relationship, sweet messages, and finally the proposal.
When the video ends, pull out the ring and ask the big question. It’s intimate, heartfelt, and perfect for someone who prefers a low-key setting.
8. Hot Air Balloon Proposal
For those who love adventure, a hot air balloon ride is a unique and unforgettable way to propose. Book a ride for Valentine’s Day and enjoy breathtaking views as you float above the world.
As you reach the peak of the ride, take their hand, and ask them to marry you. The serene atmosphere and stunning views will make it a magical moment.
9. Starry Night Proposal
There’s something inherently romantic about stargazing. Find a quiet, secluded spot away from city lights and set up a blanket and pillows for comfort. Bring some hot chocolate or wine to keep warm.
As you lie under the stars, tell them how much they mean to you and lead into the proposal. If you’re feeling extra creative, use a small telescope and attach a note inside the eyepiece that says, “Will You Marry Me?”
10. Customized Puzzle Proposal
If your partner enjoys puzzles or games, this idea is sure to delight them. Order a custom puzzle that spells out “Will You Marry Me?” and present it during a quiet evening together. As you both work on the puzzle, watch their reaction when they uncover the hidden message.
Pro Tip: Choose a design that’s meaningful to your relationship, like a favorite photo or an inside joke.
11. Flash Mob Proposal
If your partner loves bold gestures, a flash mob proposal will leave them speechless. Gather a group of friends or hire performers to dance to a song that holds special meaning for your relationship.
At the end of the routine, step into the spotlight and ask your partner to marry you.
Planning Tip: Coordinate with a professional choreographer to ensure everything goes smoothly.
12. Valentine’s Day Card Proposal
Sometimes, simple gestures are the most touching. Write a heartfelt note in a Valentine’s Day card, pouring out your feelings and building up to the proposal.
Hand it to them during a quiet moment at home or a picnic. Once they’ve read it, present the ring and ask them to marry you.
Personal Touch: Include a hand-drawn illustration or a special keepsake inside the card.
13. Romantic Getaway Proposal
Plan a surprise trip to a dreamy destination for Valentine’s Day. It could be a cozy cabin in the mountains, a beach resort, or even a staycation at a local boutique hotel.
Use the getaway as an opportunity to relax, reconnect, and create the perfect setting for your proposal. Choose a moment when the two of you are alone and the atmosphere feels just right.
Bonus Idea: Arrange for champagne and flowers to be waiting in your room afterward.
14. Balloon Bouquet Surprise
Get a bouquet of helium balloons and attach small notes to each string, with the final one revealing the big question. Let your partner read each note, building up to the moment when they find the proposal message. Hide the ring in one of the balloons or have it ready when they finish.
Tip: Use balloons in their favorite colors or add confetti for a festive touch.
15. Proposal with a Four-Legged Friend
If you have a pet, involve them in the proposal. Tie the ring box to their collar or attach a small sign that says, “Will You Marry Me?” Let your furry friend deliver the surprise while you prepare to get down on one knee.
It’s a sweet and personal way to include a beloved member of your family in the moment. 🐶🌼
Safety Tip: Ensure the ring is securely attached and can’t be swallowed.
16. A Private Movie Screening
Rent out a small theater or create a backyard cinema experience for the two of you. Play your favorite movie, but edit the ending to include a short clip of you proposing.
As the screen goes black, turn to them with the ring. The combination of surprise and personalization will make it an unforgettable proposal.
Pro Tip: Decorate the space with fairy lights and comfy seating to set the mood. 🎥✨
17. Musical Serenade Proposal
If you or someone you know can play an instrument, compose a song or perform a special piece for your partner. Invite them to an intimate setting, like a park or your living room, and perform the song live.
As the final note fades, take out the ring and ask the big question. Music has a way of making emotions soar, and this idea guarantees tears of joy. 🎶💍
Extra Touch: Record the song as a keepsake for your partner to treasure forever.
18. Food Truck Proposal
If your partner is a foodie, arrange a visit to their favorite food truck or one they’ve been wanting to try. Coordinate with the vendor to have a special message written on the packaging or served as part of the meal. When they discover the surprise, get ready to propose right there.
Example: “Will You Marry Me?” written in chocolate sauce on a dessert plate. 🍴💓
19. Recreate Your First Date
Take a trip down memory lane by recreating your very first date together. Wear similar outfits, visit the same spot, and even order the same food or drinks. As the evening progresses, reflect on how far you’ve come as a couple before popping the question. It’s a sentimental and nostalgic way to propose.
Bonus: Finish the night with a small gift that ties into your first date for added sweetness.
20. Treasure Hunt Adventure
For the adventure-loving couple, create a treasure hunt that leads to your proposal spot. Use riddles, maps, or even geocaching to make the journey fun and interactive. End the hunt at a scenic location where you’re waiting with the ring. The thrill of discovery will add to the excitement of the moment. 🗺️💎
Planning Tip: Make sure the clues are easy enough to solve to avoid frustration.
21. Skywriting Proposal
For a truly grand gesture, hire a skywriting service to spell out your proposal in the clouds. Take your partner to an open area like a park or beach, and wait for the big reveal in the sky. It’s bold, romantic, and impossible to miss.
Pro Tip: Check the weather forecast to ensure clear skies for your proposal day. ☁️❤️
22. Museum or Art Gallery Proposal
Take your partner to a museum or art gallery they love. Coordinate with the staff to display a custom exhibit or artwork that spells out your proposal. As you guide them through the exhibits, casually lead them to the special piece, then ask the big question.
23. Home-Cooked Meal Surprise
Sometimes, the simplest gestures are the most heartfelt. Plan a romantic evening at home and cook a gourmet meal from scratch. Set the table with candles, flowers, and your best dinnerware. As you serve dessert, bring out the ring and ask the question. It’s intimate, cozy, and full of love.
24. Proposal at a Charity Event
If giving back is important to both of you, consider proposing during a charity event you’re attending together. Whether it’s a fundraiser, volunteering, or a community event, incorporate the proposal into the occasion. It’s a meaningful way to start your journey together while making a positive impact.
25. Gardening Together Proposal
If your partner loves nature, plan a gardening day together. As you plant flowers or vegetables, hide the ring in a small decorative pot. When they find it, get down on one knee and propose. It’s a simple, heartfelt idea that symbolizes growth and a future together.
Wrapping It Up with Love
No matter how you choose to propose, the most important thing is that it’s meaningful to you both. Valentine’s Day already holds so much romantic charm, so adding your proposal to the mix will make it a day you’ll both cherish forever.
So, what’s your plan? Pick an idea, add your personal twist, and make this Valentine’s Day the beginning of your forever story. 💖